Comment on Paulo Coelho's article (http://bit.ly/9gBqxk)

Its good to keep in mind that these changes come when you need to be a better person for yourself and to others in your own particular situation. marriage is not always the answer, but at some point in life most people need somebody to share their new experiences with. That doesn’t mean they are only happy because they are married, but because they are growing in their own situation. Lets say I’m single: but I can’t leave alone, so i keep looking for that one person or moment that will make me happy and everyday ill try somebody new or something new, but in the end ill be alone, and i most likely wont have accomplished half the things i would’ve if i had someone loyal by my side. But lets say i think oh no i can find somebody later in life, but most people ( not to say everyone) gets so hurt throwout their lives that they cant find anyone. We have kind of a timeline for certain things in life, and now a days this timeline is being confused by things that only last moments and not forever. If you keep living life through short moments in the end you'll only have the little pieces and most of the time we are not able to pull them together into a full painting…Keep that in mind!